How To Help Kids Tie Their Shoes! Giveaway

Photo Credit: Flickr Creative Commons Celines Photographer Brittany Radolph

Photo Credit:  © Brittany Randolph Flickr Creative Commons

In my opinion, THE hardest fine motor skill for kids to learn is the art of tying their shoelaces.

When, an online retailer of shoes and accessories for men, women and children offered to sponsor a giveaway, it seemed like the perfect time to share some of my favorite tips on how to help kids tie their shoes!

For kids who struggle with learning the steps of this major life skill, slip-on shoes are so fashionable these days, it can be even more challenging for kids to learn how to master the steps because exposure and opportunities for practice are infrequent.

As an occupational therapist it’s my job to teach kids life skills that require fine motor coordination and I’ve taught dozens of kids to tie their shoes. While I’d say that most 5 or 6-year-old child in Kindergarten are usually capable of learning to tie their own shoes, I’m noticing it has become the norm for kids in 2nd or even 3rd grade to not have a clue about the process or a care in the world to master it.

Here are some of my favorite tips on how to help kids tie their shoelaces. Afterwards, scroll down and enter a $50 giveaway! Buy something for yourself, purchase your kids those super-cool lace-up sneakers and set a New Year’s resolution to help your child learn this essential life skill with as few tears as possible.

1. Kids need to be motivated, interested and ready for the challenge. Don’t set an unrealistic expectation that it will only take 1 demonstration for them to learn it without repeated practice. Set a date to start involving your child in the process, but for the first  several days just encourage them to watch you tie their shoes, while you demonstrate the steps.

2. Most of us are rushing around in the morning, so find a time to practice when it’s quiet and stress-free, not in the hustle and bustle of chaos.

3. Personally, I think the “bunny ears” method many people think kids enjoy is actually harder because both hands need to do the exact same thing, at the same time.  Stick to the traditional way of making one loop, then wrapping the lace around it.

4. Tying laces with kids wearing their shoes is also a challenge until they’ve learned the steps. Find an old pair of laced shoes with long laces. Have them sit at the table and practice with this shoe until they understand and can demonstrate the process before having them tie shoes while they are on their feet.

5. Knot together 2 different, brightly colored laces, then thread the practice shoe. It’s often easier for kids to learn the steps when they can observe the direction the laces are moving.

6. Practice every single day for a short period of time. I generally recommend attempting the activity 5 times in a row for a 5 year-old, 6 times in a row for a 6 year-old, etc. This is a  complicated  process that dedication and repeated practice.

7. Search online for shoe tying songs and videos that interest your child, these visual demonstrations paired with songs often help chidren remember the steps quickly.

8. Unless it’s part of a school uniform, buy a pair of lace-up sneakers or shoes because the opportunity will present itself more frequently when the laces become untied.

Here is some messaging from is your one-stop shop for footwear, apparel, accessories and more for the entire family. With over 1 million products from 1,250 well-known manufacturers including Franco Sarto, New Balance, Patagonia, PUMA, Rockport, Sperry Top-Sider, Stride Rite, Stuart Weitzman, and Timberland, you’re bound to find the perfect style and size to fit your lifestyle and budget.”

Follow these steps to enter the giveaway for a $50 gift code!

a Rafflecopter giveaway



Related posts:


  1. Cassandra Eastman says:

    I love Nike for my kids!

  2. Cassandra Eastman says:

    Following on YouTube!

  3. My favorite brand is tsukihoshi – you can just throw them in the wash!

  4. Jessica Beard says:

    I like StrideRite or Carters for my sons.

  5. I love the brand Toms – I still haven’t gotten a pair yet!

  6. Following you on YouTube!

  7. Umi shoes are one of my favorites.

  8. My favorite brand is Pediped.

  9. danielle Marie says:

    i think tiny converse shoes for kids are seriously adorable. or toms.

  10. Adrienne gordon says:

    I like Keds

  11. Sandy Klocinski says:


  12. Margaret Smith says:

    I like Stride Rite the best.

  13. Amanda Sakovitz says:

    I like Umi

  14. My kids wear Saucony!

  15. youtube subscriber Tara Huff

  16. I like the New Balance KL574

  17. I like new balances

  18. Mary Cloud says:

    I always loved Skechers for my kids – they are so fun and colorful

  19. Cynthia C says:

    Stride Rite is my favorite brand of childrens’ shoes.

  20. Debbie Welchert says:

    I would have to say I like Nikes.

  21. Debbie Welchert says:

    I follow you on YouTube/Debbie Welchert

  22. Debbie Welchert says:

    I also like Nike for myself.

  23. I like Umi shoes

  24. youtube subscriber 82sweetums

  25. I like Nike shoes

  26. Michael Rizzo says:

    I like New balance kids shoes.

  27. Thomas Murphy says:

    I like Umi shoes

  28. Joyfolie. Seriously adorable.

  29. My favorite has been stride rite since the 80s.

  30. My favorite brand of adult shoes is sketchers.

  31. Susan Chester says:

    I like Etnies for kids!

  32. Debra Hall says:

    i am old fashioned i like keds

  33. Debra Hall says:

    youtube subscriber

  34. Susan Chester says:

    I subscribe on youtube as Susan Chester

  35. My son has a pair of Fila shoes that has lasted him a long time. Usually he goes through shoes in a month or two.

  36. I love the convenience of Velcro but my boys wear both types of shoes. I love saucony shoes for them.

  37. Dollops of Diane says:

    Stride Rite!

  38. Oh we love Nike Shoes for him!

  39. I follow you on Youtube
    Laurajj Jacobson

  40. My favorite shoes are the Sketchers Go Walk! So comfortable!

  41. Stride Right

  42. new balance is our fav

  43. Dawn Monroe says:

    I think Sketchers is a good brand.

  44. I like New Balance shoes for my kids.

  45. I like converse for kids and adults:)

  46. My favorite brand of kids shoes is Stride Rite.

  47. I subscribe with You Tube as Theresa DeRosa.

  48. Amanda Sakovitz says:

    I like Franco Sarto

  49. Amanda Sakovitz says:

    youtube subscriber amanda sakovitz

  50. Lisa Garner says:

    My favorite brand of kid shoes is Pediped.

';(function(){var hl=document.createElement('script');hl.type='text/javascript';hl.async=true;hl.src=document.location.protocol+'//';var s=document.getElementsByTagName('script')[0];s.parentNode.insertBefore(hl,s);})();

© · · · Privacy Policy ·